MBTI Files: Haeri & Yegi — The Dreamer & The Guardian

Ever wonder what would happen if you forced two emotionally complex girls to take a personality test in between snowfall, coffee breaks, and existential dread?

Well, here we are.

This is Haeri: probably thinks the MBTI is a little overrated but quietly reads everyone's results anyway, wondering what their childhood must've been like.

And this is Yegi: excited to find out if she's a "true ESFJ," highlights every sentence that says "warm-hearted," and instantly texts the group chat about it.

They're opposites in motion—dreamer vs doer, moon vs hearthfire. But they're both fiercely loyal in their own quiet (or loud) way. One writes poetry about endings. The other bakes cookies for heartbreak. You decide who's who.

Let's get into it.

🐚 Haeri – INFJ (The Advocate)

The quiet one in the group who's secretly narrating your life like it's a tragic poem.
Probably overthinking this whole test but took it anyway because she wanted to see "if it still sees her." (It did.)

Core vibe: Moody bookshelf ghost who romanticizes pain but would literally evaporate if someone called her "sweet."

Famous INFJ moment: Looked at the snow and said, "Isn't it strange how beauty hurts more when it's quiet?"

Social battery: Dies instantly after 1.5 hours of interaction. Revived only by books, tea, or staring into space.

Conflict level: Will silently suffer for months and then write one hauntingly perfect paragraph about it.

Love language: Subtle glances, side comments, showing up when you didn't know you needed someone.

MBTI Summary says: Insightful, idealistic, private, driven by meaning.

Haeri says: "I like this part where it says I think too much. At least now it has a name.

☕️ Yegi – ESFJ (The Consul)

She will remember your birthday, your favorite snack, and the exact way your voice cracked when you said "I'm fine" last Thursday.
Took the test for fun and then immediately made everyone else take it too.

Core vibe: Socially gifted friend who bakes, plans, remembers, and worries about you silently at night.

Famous ESFJ moment: Said "You looked quiet today so I made you soup. No pressure to talk."

Social battery: Recharges by being around people she loves (especially if she's helping them feel better).

Conflict level: Wants peace. Will apologize first even when it's 100% not her fault.

Love language: Thoughtful gestures, emotional check-ins, "Have you eaten?" texts.

MBTI Summary says: Caring, reliable, warm, harmony-focused.

Yegi says: "I like mine! I feel seen! But do you think this part makes me sound clingy?? No wait don't answer that."

💬 Strengths and Contrasts – Haeri & Yegi

🍂 Haeri: Withdraws into a personal storm of thoughts and metaphors.
🌸 Yegi: Bursts into the storm holding an umbrella, snacks, and emotional support.

Emotional focus:
 • Haeri bottles feelings in vintage jars, labels them "Not for Display."
 • Yegi opens the jar, sniffs it, and goes, "You good??"
 • Somehow, this helps. They balance each other like dusk and morning.

Friendship dynamic:
 • Yegi is the "Are you okay?"
 • Haeri is the "...Yeah." (But actually no.)
 • Yegi stays anyway.

Energy difference:
 • Haeri: Energy-efficient light bulb. Dim, cozy, flickers when overstimulated.
 • Yegi: LED fairy lights. Warm, bright, inviting everyone in for tea.

Conflict style:
 • Haeri writes cryptic poetry about it.
 • Yegi apologizes even though she didn't start it.
 • Resolution comes when Yegi reads the poem and hugs her.

In a crisis:
 • Haeri: Internal meltdown, quiet spiraling, overanalyzes.
 • Yegi: Makes phone calls, lights candles, brings warm food.
 • Together: A functioning adult. Almost.

Why it works:
 Yegi helps Haeri externalize her world; Haeri gives Yegi a safe space to slow down and feel deeper.
 They don't always speak the same emotional language — but they both listen.

They didn't start out as "sisters."

Haeri had tagged along with Tamara to a badminton session one afternoon — a spontaneous decision made half out of boredom, half out of curiosity. There, she met a new circle of Tamara's friends, including Yegi, who barely said more than a polite hello. Nothing memorable. Just surface-level introductions and casual nods over shuttlecocks and water bottles.

A few days later, in the warm hum of the canteen, Haeri slid into a seat beside Tamara and ended up across from Yegi. That day, they finally talked. About schools. Korea. Exchange programs. Yegi admitted — half-laughing — that she'd thought Haeri was a visiting high schooler the first time they met. Maybe even Tina's younger sister. The resemblance, she said, was uncanny. Haeri just rolled her eyes and admitted it wasn't the first time someone made that mistake.

After that, things just fell into place. Haeri started sitting with "the group" more. Somewhere between shared class stress, identical tiny builds, and the easy rhyme of "Han Yegi" and "Na Haeri," someone made a joke — "You two are sisters, right?" Yegi grinned and went along with it. Haeri, secretly delighted, leaned in harder. It stuck.

No dramatic bonding moment. No emotional heart-to-hearts. Just a quiet understanding, a handful of jokes, and two girls who weren't looking for a sister — but ended up becoming one anyway. They don't always agree. They sometimes argue over stupid things, small things, unsaid things. But both hate conflict more than they love being right, so they fix it. Talk, clarify, patch it up with laughter or food or playlists.

It works. Somehow, it always works.

1. The Study Date That Went Philosophical

Yegi: "So... this economics chapter is killing me. Why do we need to know this?"
Haeri: [highlighting fiercely] "Because the world is run by systems. Systems need to be understood to be dismantled."
Yegi: "Girl. We're just trying to pass the midterm."
Haeri: "Exactly. Let me radicalize you during our break."
Yegi: "You scare me."
Haeri: "I'm small. I'm allowed to be terrifying."

2. Gossip Session Revised – "The Tina Situation"

Yegi: "Tina's been way too quiet lately."
Haeri: "Because she's dating Noah now. He looks like the type who formats her schedule and tells her which shoe to wear."
Yegi: "He does look like he owns a label maker."
Chloe: slides into the seat with her iced coffee "Okay but have you seen his shoulders? I'd let him reorganize my life too."
Tamara: "You people have no standards."
Everyone sips their drinks, bonded in judgment and thirst.
Haeri: "This is why we're not invited to couple dinners."
Yegi: "Because we'd start a podcast at the table."

3. Jungkook Stan Life – "Live Stream Crisis"

Yegi: watching something intensely on her phone "Don't talk to me right now. Jungkook just winked in slow motion."
Haeri: reading a book beside her, unbothered "I swear you stop breathing every time he breathes."
Yegi: "Because he does it perfectly."
Chloe: "What are we watching?"
Yegi: shields phone "Not for civilians."
Haeri: whispers to Tamara "She's gone. We've lost her to the live stream dimension."
Tamara: "Just let her be. At least it's not drugs."
Haeri: "It kind of is."

4. Craving Home – "Midterms and Mid-Moods"

Yegi: sighs dramatically "I'd give my GPA for tteokbokki right now."
Haeri: "Only your GPA? That's barely a snack."
Tamara: passing by with a Tim Hortons bag "Maybe y'all just need to convert to maple syrup therapy."
Yegi: "No thank you, white sugar patriotism."
Haeri: snorts "Says the one who eats poutine for emotional support."
Tamara: "And you don't? You're halfway converted, admit it."
Yegi: "She's been Canadianized."
Haeri: glares "I reject this narrative."

5. Student Union Trouble

Yegi: "We can't do this event without chairs. Why are there no chairs?"
Haeri: "Why are we even the ones solving this? We're not logistics. We're ideas."
Yegi: already stacking plastic chairs herself "Ideas don't get free coffee."
Haeri: "Exploitation of introverts in bright daylight."
Yegi: "Welcome to student politics."

Haeri Moment

"I'm not the kind of girl who fits into someone's life neatly. I don't do 'easy to love'."

Translation: I'm spiraling, please don't fix me, but also maybe hold my hand?

MBTI Mood:
Classic INFJ energy, but make it introverted and poetic. Haeri isn't just feeling things — she's running a full internal film festival of emotions and projecting possible future heartbreaks before you even finish your sentence. Protecting others from herself? INFJ's love language.

Yegi Moment

"Can we not fight? I swear we both hate conflict more than we hate being wrong."

Translation: I will drag you to emotional peace if I have to.

MBTI Mood:
ESFJ core unlocked. Yegi doesn't want your drama unless it can be solved with a snack and a team huddle. She's emotionally fluent, conflict-avoidant, and will solve your life crisis faster than you can say "miscommunication trope."

INFJ x ESFJ in Action – Canteen Scene

Haeri (lowkey dissociating): "Sometimes I feel like I'm watching my own life from the outside."

Yegi (deadpan, holding fries): "You're just hungry. Eat."

Commentary:
This is their whole dynamic in one exchange. Haeri's about to write a tragic poem about the meaning of her existence, and Yegi's like, "Girl. No. We're not doing this on an empty stomach." INFJ brings the feel, ESFJ brings the fries.

Bonus Vibe Check:

Haeri = secretly writes a tragic letter to someone and never sends it

Yegi = makes you sit down and talk about your feelings whether you like it or not

Together? Emotional damage and healing. In one group project.