[Fanfiction] Mentally strong

Original novel: EN of Love: TOSSARA
Author of original novel: Faddist
Writer of fanfiction: Chocolate Ginger

Couple: Gun x Bar.
Genre: slice of life
Rating: 17+

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Mentally strong

I have studied 10 signs you are mentally stronger than most people. I realized that Gun is a mentally strong man.

1/ You allow yourself to cry. Crying is not a sign of weakness. Crying can help your muscles relax and relieve tension.

When Gun he confessed his love to me in front of other students at our university, he cried because of panicking that he could not persuade me to become his boyfriend. Gun was not ashamed of crying in front of other people.

2/ You don't try to control everything. Pace is important. If you are constantly burning yourself out, are you really getting closer to your goal or further away from it? Sometimes you just have to be patient and wait things out.

Gun is patient. He has learned hard for a couple of years to pass the university entrance exam for medicine.

3/ You use your time wisely. Channel your efforts into other areas of self-improvement and be mindful of not only your goal but yourself.

Gun didn't only focus on me. He paid attention on studying and tried to become an outgoing person.

4/ You practice gratitude. Appreciate the people and things you have in your life. It's okay to be frusted, but don't fall in the trap of playing the victim, that just holds you back even further.

5/ You are kind to others.

You know no one owes you anything in return.

6/ You are open to new ideas.

If something no longer agrees with your values, it's okay to change your mind and move on to better things. Mentally strong people will not stubbornly hold on to situations that no longer server them well.

7/ You learn from your mistakes.

Do you take time every day to reflect on your actions? This habit will take you far in life.

People who tend to repeat their mistakes or focus on self-blame or blame external factors, instead of problem-solving are more likely to stay in a toxic cycle.

Be open to feedback to in order to get better.

8/ You spend money responsibly.

I do not know Gun's habit of using money in the first place. Maybe as the time goes by, I can understand him more.

9/ You don't lean on codependency.

When you practice self-sufficiency, find happiness from within and learn how to deal with your problems alone, you allow others to support you, not rescue you.

I think sometimes, we are both good at dealing with our problems alone.

10/ You continue to persist.

Slow and steady wins the race. Taking things one day at a time and chunking your dreams into smaller goals will bring you closer to making them real.

Picture of Gun Tossakan (actor Win Achawin Michaels ) and Bar Sarawut (actor Folk Thitiphat Chankaew) in the live action En of Love: TOSSARA (2020).

Dear Folk. I know there are so many replies here. Maybe you do not have enough time to read all. I hope you can read this and think about it. I am an international fan. I can only speak English. I look for your clips on youtube. But there are no English subtitle (Engsub). In my opinion, if you can have Engsub, it will be great for international fans to understand you more and can support you. When you livestream on instagram, if you can also English, international fans can interact with you. I believe English is helpful for your career as an actor in the long-term. I wish you health to do everything you want. Stay healthy :D