This is mainly just things my parents or their girlfriend/boyfriend's do that would be counted as abuse....

Derogatory "pet names." This is just more name-calling in not-so-subtle disguise. "My little knuckle dragger" or "My chubby pumpkin" aren't terms of endearment.

My mom does that....

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Yelling. Yelling, screaming, and swearing are meant to intimidate and make you feel small and inconsequential. It might be accompanied by fist-pounding or throwing things.

My dad....

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"Joking." The jokes might have a grain of truth to them or be a complete fabrication. Either way, they make you look foolish.

Mom and dad...

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Digital spying. They might check your internet history, emails, texts, and call log. They might even demand your passwords.

My mom, dad, and dad's girlfriend....

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Lecturing. Belaboring your errors with long monologues makes it clear they think you're beneath them.

Mom and dad....

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Turning the tables. They say you cause their rage and control issues by being such a pain.

Dad....

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Using guilt. They might say something like, "You owe me this. Look at all I've done for you," in an attempt to get their way.

Mom and dad.... CONSTANTLY....

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Goading then blaming. Abusers know just how to upset you. But once the trouble starts, it's your fault for creating it.

Dad....

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Trivializing. When you want to talk about your hurt feelings, they accuse you of overreacting and making mountains out of molehills.

Dad...

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Demanding respect. No perceived slight will go unpunished, and you're expected to defer to them. But it's a one-way street.

Literally all the adults in my life...

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Disputing your feelings. Whatever you feel, they'll say you're wrong to feel that way or that's not really what you feel at all.

Mom....

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Indifference. They see you hurt or crying and do nothing.

My dad's girlfriend....

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And there's all of them..... I found all these things from 'Mental Abuse'