I really hate being abandoned!  If my friends or anyone who leaves me, I avoid it.  Seeing the position is not good, they do not really need or respect their friendship with him, he withdraws automatically.  I really like to talk and advise others but slowly feel that people do not need my confession, I automatically disregard.  That's how I harden in friendship, rather than having friends but definitely not to put myself in a low position in your heart.