Dior

10:39 AM

Purple flowers every date (expensive and fun ones!!!), 30K a week, separate gifts...AND KISSING?! PLURAL?

Yes.

Ugh

I know

GIRL!!!

Okay, I'm actually really, really, REALLY happy for you.

...You are?

YES!

You deserve this more than anyone. Relaxing a little. Being taken care of. Being spoiled. Someone actually showing up for you.

NOT being the man, for once?!

I'm still getting used to it 😭

Exactly. Which is why I'm glad it's happening!!!

He's very attentive to my needs

Attuned to what I want

Steps back when I need him to, but not too far back

Like

Fuck, 'di ko ma-explain 😭

This is really, really dangerous

Why, babes?

Because it's starting to feel easy.

Easy how?

I look forward to seeing him.

It's soooo easy to talk to him, laugh with him, flirt with him

When we have disagreements, he knows how to handle me

Easy to let him get close. Easy to feel peaceful, like a woman, easy to turn off my brain

Lia, when I met my boyfriend, ganyan din nasa isip ko.

So that doesn't sound like a problem.

It sounds like one sa setup na 'to!

And it's been what, like 2 months na?

It sounds like one also for someone who built an entire career around predicting relationships.

And the data says this shouldn't work. AT ALL.

But.............?

But he's proving me wrong 🫠

Daena

11:16 AM

ok, third date with marco and i'm surprised at how well it's going

nakausap mo na siya?

Yes, just yesterday.

He had a positive review, too 😉

...you're annoyingly good at this.

but idk parang may kulang pa. :( i can't help but feel na may kulang pa.

Meaning?

like the physical chemistry ba

we talk a lot, we laugh, he's nice, sweet, a gentleman...pero wala yung like intense kilig? like the desire to rip each other's clothes off?

That's not necessarily a bad sign.

how is that not a bad sign 😭

Daena, the stats aren't built on fireworks, or the intense "physical chemistry"

ihhhhhhhh

Again, curiosity → conversation → emotional trust.

That's the order.

but shouldn't there be at least SOMETHING physical by now

Sometimes there is

Sometimes it grows once you feel safe with the person

i don't want to feel like I'm forcing myself tho......

You're not forcing anything if you're still enjoying his company.

'Yan ang tanong ko. Are you?

yes, i am....

Then that's a good sign.

but what if the sparks never come?

Three dates is still early, Daena

you're telling me to be patient

I'm telling you to stay curious

ih mas madali kasi if he was hotter

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Daddy Isaac

11:34 AM

Please. PLEASE give me strength.

Sakto. I just finished with a surgery

Hi, baby.

What's wrong?

One of my clients is stressing me out

She's on her third date with a very good match

They talk for hours, same values, same lifestyle goals, compatible families, the like

They both enjoy spending time with each other

Okay, sounds promising.

IT IS

But?

It's frustrating because she's focusing too much on physical chemistry

But that's exactly the pattern I'm trying to break from her previous matches: chemistry, then intensity, then impulsive decisions

And it led her into a bad place, I'm assuming.

Every time.

Strong attraction, everything moves too fast, emotions get loud, and suddenly she's

Ughhhhh

I'm trying to be understanding because I think her brain keeps scanning for the same signals even if those signals led to bad decisions before.

But it's frustrating because I'm not matching people for sex.

I'm matching them for life partnership. And sometimes clients think the quiet, stable connection means something is missing

I hear you.

Reinforce the pattern you're trying to build with her.

Sometimes people just need a little encouragement when something feels unfamiliar.

That's what I've been telling her!!!

Help her notice what's good instead of what's missing

I'm trying, I'm just tired

Thank you for that, and thank you for listening to my rant

Back to work

Eliana

Yes?

ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ

What is that

Passing my strength to you

HAHAHAHAHA

Ugh you're so cute.

My job here is done. At least I know I made you smile.

Text me if anyone else annoys you

Will do 😂

Ah! By the way

I have something to ask...

My favorite words. Yes?

It's totally fine if you can't

Swear

Alam kong busy ka

Baka may plans ka mamaya

Ta's medyo hassle

So if hindi mo kaya ok lang talaga

Eliana.

Yes

Shut up and tell me what you need so I can provide it.

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"Fertilize us!" my eggs shouted in unison.

Daddy Isaac

11:42 AM

Yes, daddy

Ide-deliver 'yung washing machine namin mamaya

May installation naman na kasama pero 'yung pag-move, medyo narrow 'yung space sa loob, e ayoko naman sila papasukin puro kami babae

And 'di ko 'ata kaya mag-isa

And idk check the installation na rin baka bolahin lang nila ako if I don't understand.

Can you help me?

A. Yes, of course, anything for you

B. No (you hate me)

A.

Across the board As.

I would love to. And I'm thrilled you asked.

PHEW.

Did you expect a different response??

No.

But

Moving appliances is serious business

Good thing I'm very committed to providing.

What time am I picking you up?

Um, 5? Is that ok? Baka naman may appointment ka

Nope.

See you at 5, baby 😘

Thank youuuuuu. 😚

Daena

11:45 AM

Give it time, Daena.

The attraction still has room to grow.

you sound very confident :(

Because I've seen this pattern before, but it only works if you actually follow my advice and are very much willing.

Willing ka pa ba? Because Marco is investing his full focus on you, and that's not something to take lightly.

The chemistry you're looking for sometimes comes later, when you start to feel emotionally safe with someone.

But if you're already halfway out the door because you're waiting for the "desire," you might miss the part where the spark actually grows.

So I just need to know if you're still open to letting this develop.

i am, swearrrrr.

update kita, thank you lia!!! 🥹

You're welcome! Talk soon.

Sienna

1:33 PM

ate pano ulit i-reset yung wifi 😭

Sienna

2:06 PM

ateeeeeee

tiktok ko emz

di ako makaaral

Sienna

2:12 PM

Nasa meeting ako.

Unplug the router

Wait a few seconds

Plug it back in

which one is the router?

The one beside the modem

alin 'yung modem? hahahah

ilang seconds??

'Yung katabi

ok wait

plugging it back

nagbblink pa rin sya ateee

It's supposed to blink

ok how long until it comes back hehe

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sabi ni mama tawagan kita

wala pa rin e

tama ba to? ito ba yung router?

Sienna sent a photo

ilang seconds ba?

Sienna, nasa meeting nga ako

Ultimong pag-unplug ng router, kailangan ako pa? Hindi mo alam which is the router? You live there too. Bahay mo rin 'yan. Figure it out for one minute.

ok sorry

gumagana na

Amazing

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Mama

2:21 PM

bkt m pinapagalitan c sienna

nagta2nong cia ng maayos

Ma naman.

Hindi ko siya pinapagalitannnnn

Sinabi ko na sa kanya na nasa meeting ako. Tsaka router lang 'yan, hindi naman mahirap i-figure out?

hndi nmn nia yan pinapakelaman

ikaw ang nagaasikaso

Opo nga Ma pero tinuro ko na 'yan dati sa kanya

Kahit diyan, kailangan naka-depende sa'kin?

nagaaral c sienna

May trabaho din ako, Ma.

Dalawa pa nga.

kailangan nia lng ng tulong

SO DO I SOMETIMES

ikaw ang ate

ate k, dapat inaalagaan m kapatid m

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Went to the bathroom to scream.

🔒 @liamonade

Oh.

Daddy Isaac

2:30 PM

Are these flowers from you???

Who else would they be from?

🙄

...For what?

Just something to make your day brighter.

I haven't seen you in 2 days because we're both busy with work.

You didn't have to

It's placing one order, Eliana.

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Can I call you

Or are you busy?

If you are that's fine

5 minutes, love

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Daddy Isaac

2:34 PM

Okay, I sped up my shit

You didn't have to do that

Yes, I did

Calling

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Daddy Isaac

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